20 year old dating 16 year old uk
Sure, 4-5 year difference doesn't sound to bad, but it is when you are younger.As you said, she is going through changes, and she will want to do her own thing and not be committed to a relationship - and the relationships she will be involved with are just learning experiences - but you on the other hand are looking for a lasting relationship; I'm almost certain you aren't going to have a lasting relationship with this girl.Plus, like Shannon said, the way you describe her sounds like she doesn't even like you as much as you like her.Oh and the age of consent is 16 in the Netherlands, you're fine. Unfortunately, because I have know several girls who have been destroyed by older boys; I am alittle bit bias to this situation. As for wills comment - I think that age does matter, and in this case, It matters alot.In the end, they accepted it since they like her, though.
But I assure you, not every guy my age is lusting after sex.Best wishes, Chris If you're not trying to have sex with her and she's not making enough any effort to be with you, then why can't you just remove the current labels and be 'just friends'. Hey there 502, This thread is interesting, because I am 21 and my girlfriend is 17, so the same age gap as you.She'll probably open up more, you can go find a girlfriend your age and yeah... Firstly I think the age gap is on the edge of what is acceptable, it may be silly but the formula to test the "acceptable" age gap is to divide your own age by two and plus 7, so you would be just outside that. In this case, I am the 20 year old guy (June 1991) with a 16 year old girlfriend (August 1995) I've read a lot and done some investigation, and I know the relationship with the girl I'm seeing is questionable and frowned upon. By registering an account you will be able to enjoy unlimited access to our site, and will be able to: Hi If you read the title, thanks!